I can't explain why the death of a man l have never meet has such a profound effect on me. I would like to pass on my deepest sympathy to his wife, children, and parents. I have meet John's sister, through a mutual friend and l know how much she thought of her brother, and how much she would also be grieving. I just want you all to know that my thoughts are with you and strangers are crying with you for your loss. be proud, he was a wonderful person that would, I'm sure want you to go forward with your lives, and be as happy as he was for having you all around him. You are all a part of what made John Ilhan, John Ilhan.
With my love and thoughts,
Judy